Monday, May 22, 2006

The $5 wedding ring dillema

I tend to be of the opinion that I'm extremely normal. You know, the standard that all others should be judged by. Every once in a while, I notice something that is different about me, however, which causes me to question this belief.

The Background:
I lost my wedding ring a couple of years ago. I was making salmon one night, and I took it off so I wouldn't get raw fish bits in the cracks and crevices of the ring. I was sure that I put it down on the counter, but I've never seen it again.

Eh well, no big deal I guess. I didn't really give it much of a second thought until recently. For some reason, lately, I've really wanted to have a wedding ring. Maybe it's because Shnoogs and I are in a good place. Maybe because I've had a decline in the number of women flirting with me, so I need a wedding ring to help me look more attractive. Who knows?

The Foreground:
So I bought a ring on ebay two weeks ago. Unfortunately, it didn't fit. I had used a string to measure my ring size, and I was off by a size and a half. So I placed a bid on another one today after getting a more accurate measurement done. The auction doesn't end for 6 more days, but I'm hopeful.

Now here's where the question lies...

The ring I bought two weeks ago was $4.99 plus shipping. It was made of stainless steel, which is much more durable than gold (and machine washable). The one I bid on today is currently going for 99 cents, although the buy it now price is $4.99 also. It's a plain band, made of onyx. (I looked on wikipedia. Onyx is also surprisingly durable).

I don't know if it's relevant, but the ring that I lost was a gold ring worth ~$200.

Ok, here's where the question really lies...

The Question:
Is this weird?

It seems to me that it makes more sense to buy $5 ring that is every bit as attractive as a $200. In fact, it makes so much sense to me that I can't figure out why I'm the only one I know who is doing it. Wouldn't spending more just be inneficient?

Do most people feel that the cost of the ring = the quality of the love? I know a lot of big spenders who have gotten a divorce, so this doesn't seem to hold water.

Are most people brainwashed by the jewelry industry? Probably not. I'm not such a strong personality that I would be the ONLY one to break the mental chains.

Seriously, can somebody please tell me if I am just hopelessly clueless? Would you be pissed of your significant other was wearing a $5 wedding ring?

2 comments:

Anonymous said...

if i can wear a five dollar wedding ring, so can you. anyway, your ring isn't the one that matters, her's is. AHAHAHAHA. go with the onyx, it's my favorite stone and badass to boot.

Eric said...

I should post a picture of it sometime. It's a cool looking ring.

Coincidently though, I've recently misplaced it. Hopefully I'll find it soon, but if I don't, well, that just proves my point.